
I want to start Monday with a little perspective.
While online last night, I re-read An Incomplete Manifesto For Growth by design icon Bruce Mau. If you haven’t read it, I highly recommend it. And if you have, I recommend re-reading it. It’s a quick read and very good.
His site describes it like this:
I’m personally working on Number 32.
When I was younger I was very good listener. I would listen to my friends’ or coworkers’ ideas on a subject, stew on them a bit, and then usually form a competent opinion on the matter. Now that I’m older (not old,older), I feel like I’ve lost that skill. So much of my day is spent answering questions, giving instructions or following direction that I rarely, honestly listen to anyone or their ideas. When I’m “listening” I’m really just pausing, waiting for my turn to talk. I’m trying to change that.
So lately, I’ve been listening more. Like when my wife read the first draft of this post and told me she was bored, I listened. She was right. Like when my youngest son wanted to fix the workbench in our garage a certain way, I listened. He was right. Or when my Creative Director pushed back on my crappy ideas around brochure project, I listened. He was right.
I’m finding when I genuinely listen to my family and friends, I almost always learn something new. When I genuinely listen to our clients, I almost always do better work. When I genuinely listen to my coworkers, I hear the whispers of new ideas–and I love new ideas.
Winston Churchill said, “It takes courage to stand up and speak; it also takes courage to sit down and listen.” With this blog I’m trying to do a little of both.
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Great insight about listening better, Kevin. Having known you in college, I can attest that you were a very good listener back in the day. I’ve felt similarly recently, that life is all just too rushed. I’m trying to figure out ways to get back to my real self. Thanks for inspiring me to do so!
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